Wednesday, May 6, 2009

LISTEN TO ME

Thursday, February 26, 2009
Listen to me
What right does the Law have to determin who you listen to first????A parent should always be herd first.But were not.NOBODY knows your child like you or themselves.Let me tell you my story.Yesterday my son after having a 1 and a half hour meeting with the school,was sent to the emergincy room for absalutly no reason.he is a type 1 diebetic,and he chose to do something stupid.he had 2 slurpies and 2 orange jucies for lunch.causin his sugar to read HI on his meeter.he is suposed to go to the clinic befor lunch to take his insulin.but bein the 12 year old boy he is, he forgot to go.so he whent right after lunch.but because the PAPER WORK from the docter,said befor lunch they refused to give him his insulin.Here it really gets good,they called his dad.and said,he had a HI sugar,you have 15 minutes to get here or were callin 911.he said we were in ft,myers and wed be there within the hour.And to give him some of his insulin.There responce was we cant do that we dont have orders on the PAPERWORK.So i called them emediatly and said DO NOT call 911,they said we had no choice theyr on the way.I said all he needs is his insulin Im on my way DONOT let him go anywhere.i then got to the school,whent inside and said where is my son,they said he was transported to the hospital,witch was NOT nessery.Once again all he needed was his insulin.So because of the LAW the school nurse felt the need to pertect herself.By callin 911 and causin a bunch of issues that never needed to become issues.The problem is schools need a plan writtin in stone on PAPER.on how to treat a diebetic.There is no such thing ,every diebetic is different,but yet we as the parents have no say in his desease.Parents should be listened to first,The PAPERWORK is and should only be guidlines.So by them dion this,his blood sugar stayed HI for 6 hours in stead of 1 or 2 hours,imbarresd him in school cuz they took him out on a streatcher,and it will cost me at least 5,000 dollars.He was not in danger he is not in ketoneasitoses,he had a fast sugar that could have been takin care of right there in the clinic,with HIS insulin in there refridgearater.What right does the LAW have to say PAPERWORK comes befor parents.Those of you who has a diabetic child,knows they are still children,who do things they shouldnt.a child is a child.this desease wont change that.But NOBODY KNOWS YOUR CHILD BETTER THEN YOU.Not even the doctors who right up the GUIDLINES on the PAPERWORK

people only see what they want

Tuesday, April 21, 2009
people only see what they want at the time
You know what bothers me the most about the humen race....you can know someone forever or work somewhere for ever.nomatter where your at or what your doin,somebody is gonna judge you on how they feel.every one who knows me knows I DONT LIE!!!!! I say it how it is,and if I did somethin stupid Ill tell you.Im a growin adult, I am who I am. For instence...at work where ive been employed for 10 years have been gettin in trouble at work for every thing. I just think it sucks how someone above you can treat you like a child. I know my job and I do it well.So Ive made a few mistakes, who dosent...Were all human. I created a sinerial, not on perpose,but the way it looks, looks pretty bad.But it isnt the way it seems.You would think after 10 yers on my job.They would believe me. If I said how it happend, then thats the truth. There should be no question. How ever I did learn an impotent lesson,and Ill pass it on to you...NEVER WRIGHT SOMETHING DOWN FOR SOMEONE ELSE. Because if sombody dosent like what it says then your to blame nomatter what. Even if it wasnt your idea. Im so sick and tired of people treatin other people like there nothing. I could understand if your askin a person who lies all the time. But when you ask a person who never lies and always admitts there mistakes.That should account for something. But for some reason,you have some people that think there right on the dission there makin.And unfourtionatly they can be so WRONG. But once youve been judged there is nothin you can do about it. Except shake your head and walk away. And move on. And on a funny note. Its kinda amusin how a 36 year old women,still gets punished like a child,at work.AINT THAT FUNNY!!!!!But as I always say..."IT IS WHAT IT IS"Just live every day the best that you can.

Thursday, April 30, 2009

SWEET 16

Thursday, April 30, 2009
Sweet 16
Tomorrow my baby girl will be 16 years old. Where did the time go? I know shes still gonna be the same tomorrow,but there is something about the age 16.Its like shes not a littel girl anymore, but yet not an adult.I know its time to let her make decisions on things,and maybe even date."a little".I believe in my heart she will make mistakes as we all do,but she will learn from them and make good decisions,in the future.She is an amazing girl"yung lady"and Im so proud to be her mama.This year she will start driving,probably go on a couple of dates, and who knows she may end up meeting her 1st love.And get one of the most heart breaks of her life.You know the one we all thought the world was gonna end over.But shell grow from it.I amagin this year Ill have to be there alot to help her pick up the pieces from disapointments through out her sweet 16 year.For some reason it seems alot happens in your 16th year.But she knows mama will always be there for her. Here is a message for her....Tinky, the day you were born was both the scariest and happiest day of my life. Scariest because I knew it was gonna hurt and I couldnt figure out how to make you stop coming,and make the pregnency go away. And the happiest because,I knew you were mine.The second I layed eyes on you I cried and looked at your daddy and said we did this.You were and are my world.I could never emagine my life with out you in it.You are absalutely my best friend.I know I can be myself in front of you nomatter how stupid,retarted,or crazy im being.I love how you are not afraid to be you,how you know what you want,and what you dont want.You have an amazing out look on life.I love how you know what you want for your future and your goin for it.I know there is gonna be a few bumps in the road,for you but Ill be there to help you get back on the path you want to be on.Destani you can count on me for anything! MAMA WILL ALWAYS BE HERE!!!!! I LOVE YOU